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Re: I can't get it up. What's wrong with me?
« Reply #15 on: September 08, 2009, 06:16:54 PM »
Don't masturbate, meditate.
Re: I can't get it up. What's wrong with me?
« Reply #16 on: September 08, 2009, 06:29:53 PM »
I looked Levitra up. While I wouldn't think this happened to you by your recommendation, this troubled me:
*One possibly serious, but rare, side effect with vardenafil is heart attack. Also in rare cases, vardenafil use may damage penile tissue, resulting in permanent impotence. Health Canada (2006)
On 18 October 2007, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) announced that a warning about possible deafness (sudden hearing loss) would be added to the drug labels of Vardenafil, and other PDE5 inhibitors.*
I'd rather not risk being impotent forever or suffer hearing damage. In fact, I'd be so bold as to say that if I had permanent impotence I would most definitely off myself.
it sounds like this is purely a mental/emotional thing and if you are patient it will pass
Re: I can't get it up. What's wrong with me?
« Reply #17 on: September 08, 2009, 07:08:36 PM »
To be honest, it sounds to me like performance anxiety.  You've got a problem built up in your head and that seems to be the source.  Once you overcome the problem in your head, you can cum over her.
Re: I can't get it up. What's wrong with me?
« Reply #18 on: September 08, 2009, 07:23:06 PM »
I barely ever do it to begin with. That can't be it. Besides, doesn't fapping before sex make it easier to relax?
Then you should start doing it regularly, so that your body gets used to producing more sperm than normal and expects a release. After about 2 weeks of this, if you cut yourself off for a few days, you'll rebuild that tension.
Secondly, just let go. If you need to, meditate to practice thinking yourself to an erection.
Re: I can't get it up. What's wrong with me?
« Reply #19 on: September 08, 2009, 10:41:55 PM »
To be honest, it sounds to me like performance anxiety.  You've got a problem built up in your head and that seems to be the source.  Once you overcome the problem in your head, you can cum over her.
I don't know what that problem could be though. I always aim to please in bed and never recall having any comments suggesting I hadn't.